Gay Cruising
in Virginia Beach
The Splashd directory lists 33 gay cruising spots in and around Virginia Beach, Virginia, organized into 8 categories. Recent additions include Woodstock Park, Pembroke Meadows Lake Park, and Food Lion - Virginia Beach.
Cruisy Parks in Virginia Beach
(8)8 parks mapped in Virginia Beach, mostly with wooded paths or secluded sections. Activity peaks at dusk, with weekday evenings usually quieter than weekends.
Woodstock Park
Cruisy park parking lot with action taken into the woods. Currently closed from June 2019… + read
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Cruisy park parking lot with action taken into the woods. Currently closed from June 2019 to mid-2021 for construction to improve the park.
Pembroke Meadows Lake Park
Unisex restroom that is not usually busy between 10pm-4am. Be discreet because police patrol the park.
Carolanne Farms Park
Wooded park with paved trails. Large cleared area before the woods with lots of benches f… + read
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Wooded park with paved trails. Large cleared area before the woods with lots of benches for waiting for someone to come into the park. Best when there are leaves on the trees for more privacy. Closed after dark. Take action off the trail.
Red Wing Park
Large park with open athletics fields surrounded by dense woods. Across the volleyball ne… + read
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Large park with open athletics fields surrounded by dense woods. Across the volleyball net in the back of the park is Shelter #2 with a nearby wooded path for discreet action.
Salem Woods Park
Small park between a large neighborhood and a Walmart. Has its own parking lot and a rest… + read
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Small park between a large neighborhood and a Walmart. Has its own parking lot and a restroom that could be cruisy that is nestled into the edge of some trees.
Pleasure House Point Natural Park
Nature preserve with sand and gravel trails through the woods. Park in the street at Marl… + read
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Nature preserve with sand and gravel trails through the woods. Park in the street at Marlin and Ocean Tides and use the main entrance in. Cruise along the Shore Drive trail where there's more hiding places to take action to. Little police presence.
First Landing State Park
Large forested park with many trails and places to hookup. Use the lesser used 64th stree… + read
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Large forested park with many trails and places to hookup. Use the lesser used 64th street entrance and park in the last parking lot at the end of the road for one place to cruise. Potential for parking lot cruising there with action taken into the restroom. Also action just off the main trails.
Pearl by the Bay Park
Quiet men's restroom on Little Creek military base across the street from the Chief Petty… + read
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Quiet men's restroom on Little Creek military base across the street from the Chief Petty Officer's club. The restroom is rarely used but occasionally have a few visitors. Military ID or other type of base access required to get past the base gate. Walking distance of several enlisted barracks.
Cruisy Restrooms in Virginia Beach
(13)13 men's restrooms listed in Virginia Beach. Tap-foot under the stall and visual signals at urinals are the standard. Respect staff and other patrons.
Food Lion - Virginia Beach
Huge handicap stall that is big enough to fit 2 or more people. Also, it's big enough to… + read
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Huge handicap stall that is big enough to fit 2 or more people. Also, it's big enough to not see a second set of feet in the stall. Best to coordinate something in advance.
Home Depot - Lynnhaven PKWY
Large stalls with plenty of room for some action. Be discreet.
Princess Anne Commons
Small park with dense tree canopy, roomy single person restroom, and parking lot. Empty i… + read
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Small park with dense tree canopy, roomy single person restroom, and parking lot. Empty in the evening with no observed patrols after 5:30pm. Park open from 7:30am-sunset.
Ollie's - Virginia Beach
Men's restroom in the back of the store. Private with a good recovery time and a very lar… + read
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Men's restroom in the back of the store. Private with a good recovery time and a very large stall for two without anyone noticing during normal business hours. Use proper signals. Employees and customers go in there. You can find guys looking around men's underwear and then walk to restroom.
Lynnhaven Mall
Cruisy men's restroom inside the mall next to the Dillard's entrance. Last stall is large… + read
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Cruisy men's restroom inside the mall next to the Dillard's entrance. Last stall is large and has a hidden nook in the corner where you could play out of sight from anyone's view. The mall attracts a lot of young military guys from the nearby bases.
Windwood Centre
Office building shared between multiple companies. Potentially cruisy fourth floor handic… + read
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Office building shared between multiple companies. Potentially cruisy fourth floor handicap restroom. May require coordination. Be discreet.
Oceana TPU Barracks
Cruisy head in TPU building 446. Walk towards the restroom in the back of the building an… + read
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Cruisy head in TPU building 446. Walk towards the restroom in the back of the building and point towards the head to make sure you get noticed. JO session, hook ups, and more. On base so military ID is needed.
Lowe's - Virginia Beach
Last stall has plenty of discretion with recovery time. Use proper caution. Best to arrange something.
TCC Building G
Cruisy campus restroom with peep holes in Building G. Stay alert of campus security and c… + read
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Cruisy campus restroom with peep holes in Building G. Stay alert of campus security and cruise when the building isn't full of students. Both restrooms in the building get action.
Walmart - East Virginia Beach
Potential for discreet action in the back of the store in the men's restroom stalls. May… + read
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Potential for discreet action in the back of the store in the men's restroom stalls. May require coordination in the comments beforehand. Store located at the crossroads of Nimmo Parkway and Upton Drive.
Dam Neck NEX
Cruisy Navy Exchange men's restroom. First stall is out of commission. Popular with the y… + read
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Cruisy Navy Exchange men's restroom. First stall is out of commission. Popular with the young military men that live in the nearby barracks. Base access needed.
Hobby Lobby - Virginia Beach
Large men's restroom with two stalls and cruising potential in the back left of the store… + read
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Large men's restroom with two stalls and cruising potential in the back left of the store. The handicap accessible stall is large enough for two to remain hidden. Be discreet.
Walmart - West Virginia Beach
Potential for cruising in the men's restroom in the back of the store. Best for cruising… + read
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Potential for cruising in the men's restroom in the back of the store. Best for cruising after midnight but avoid around dinner time when it's too busy. The handicap stall is big enough for two or more people without anyone knowing there was another person in there. Be discreet.
Locker Rooms & Saunas in Virginia Beach
(6)6 gym locker rooms and saunas flagged in Virginia Beach. Most see steady traffic between 5pm and 8pm. Member access or day pass required.
Planet Fitness - Laskin Road
The locker room gets cleaned around 11:30pm. Once the cleaning crew leaves it's pretty em… + read
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The locker room gets cleaned around 11:30pm. Once the cleaning crew leaves it's pretty empty in the always open gym and the perfect time to cruise the showers and changing room and discreetly hookup in.
Onelife Fitness - Red Mill
Potentially cruisy gym with plenty of guests for action. Locker rooms have showers and sa… + read
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Potentially cruisy gym with plenty of guests for action. Locker rooms have showers and sauna to check out. Be discreet. Gym membership required for access.
Planet Fitness - Virginia Beach
Private showers offer discreet play. Be sure to message while there in order to meet the… + read
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Private showers offer discreet play. Be sure to message while there in order to meet the right person. Need membership to access the gym.
YMCA - Virginia Beach
Cruising potential in Indian River Road YMCA's men's locker room with two private shower… + read
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Cruising potential in Indian River Road YMCA's men's locker room with two private shower stalls. Best chance for cruising in the morning when it's not too busy. Gym membership required for access. Be discreet.
Kohl's - Virginia Beach
The men's fitting room has no attendant and isn't monitored. Easier to set something up i… + read
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The men's fitting room has no attendant and isn't monitored. Easier to set something up in advance. You can find guys who look behind them to give you that signal to follow them. There is a bad echo in the dressing room. Best entrance into store is the side same as Ross and Best Buy. Be discreet.
Oceana Flight Line Gym
Cruisy gym sauna on Naval Air Station Oceana. The gym is on base so a military ID card or… + read
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Cruisy gym sauna on Naval Air Station Oceana. The gym is on base so a military ID card or and ID card authorizing base access is required. Military ID needed to get on base and in the gym. Popular with young fit military guys that are usually seeking the same.
Cruisy Beaches in Virginia Beach
(1)1 beach flagged near Virginia Beach. Activity concentrates in dunes or brushy sections away from family areas. Read each spot for local etiquette and best times.
31st Street Boardwalk
Oceanfront boardwalk with a lot of guys during the summer months. Most foot traffic at th… + read
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Oceanfront boardwalk with a lot of guys during the summer months. Most foot traffic at the Atlantic Avenue and 21st Street/Laskin Road intersection. Discreetly cruise and take action into the Neptune Park restroom right at the intersection or better yet into one of your nearby hotel rooms.
Nature & Trail Spots in Virginia Beach
(1)1 wooded trail or natural area flagged near Virginia Beach. Look for parked cars signaling activity. Daylight visibility helps with finding entry paths.
Stumpy Lake Natural Area
The hiking trail is long and usually deserted on weekdays during working hours. It's oppo… + read
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The hiking trail is long and usually deserted on weekdays during working hours. It's opposite the docks and parking area. Easy to walk into trees "innocently" and see far enough ahead and behind to get privacy behind large trees for a quick blowjob.
Highway Rest Areas in Virginia Beach
(1)1 highway rest area on routes near Virginia Beach. Active mostly late at night. Security presence is unpredictable: read each spot and use discretion.
Big Charlie's Truck Plaza
Action in the restroom stalls furthest from the door in the building with the restaurant… + read
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Action in the restroom stalls furthest from the door in the building with the restaurant and store. Location is geared for truckers who can pay to park there and sleep for the night. Action is also happening in the trucks with the truckers and lounge lizards. #us13 #i64e #i64w
Cruisy Campgrounds in Virginia Beach
(1)1 campground near Virginia Beach, from clothing-optional gay resorts to mixed sites with quieter cruisy sections.
Holiday Trav-L-Park
RV park with potential for coordinated action amongst guests in the restrooms, parking lots, and the surrounding woods.
Cruisy Parking Lots in Virginia Beach
(2)2 parking lots listed in Virginia Beach. Most are best after 9pm. Discretion matters: skip the spots with active security or live cameras.
Holland Windsor Crossing
Shopping center parking lot for potential cruising. Next to Kroger behind the Impact Mart… + read
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Shopping center parking lot for potential cruising. Next to Kroger behind the Impact Martial Arts Studio, there are people who park and use it as a rest area. Best to coordinate beforehand and to go at night. Plenty of brush and fence for coverage.
Dairy Queen
Parking lot at the DQ right next to the beach. Best at night after the restaurant closes… + read
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Parking lot at the DQ right next to the beach. Best at night after the restaurant closes in the summer months when the tourists are here.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How many gay cruising spots are there in Virginia Beach?
The Splashd directory lists 33 gay cruising spots in and around Virginia Beach, Virginia. The directory covers 8 categories, with cruisy restrooms as the most-listed. The directory is updated regularly as venues open, close, or change.
What is the most popular type of cruising spot in Virginia Beach?
Cruisy Restrooms are the most-listed cruising category in Virginia Beach, with 13 locations. Cruisy Parks (8) and Locker Rooms & Saunas (6) round out the top categories. Each spot has notes on what to expect and the best times to visit.
Is public cruising legal in Virginia Beach?
Cruising in public spaces is governed by local indecency, trespassing, and public-decency statutes that vary by jurisdiction. Splashd does not provide legal advice. Always check local laws, posted hours, and private property signage. Respect other people sharing the space, and use indoor venues (bathhouses, bars, arcades) when in doubt.
How do I see who is at these Virginia Beach spots right now?
Download the free Splashd app and open the map tab. Every cruising spot in the directory shows a live user count and the most recent check-ins from Splashd users. Tap any spot to read its description, join the in-spot chat room, and connect with people who are already there or on their way.
When are Virginia Beach cruising spots busiest?
Peak hours depend on category. Bathhouses and gay bars are busiest Friday and Saturday evenings. Outdoor spots (parks, beaches, cruising grounds) peak at dusk. Adult arcades and gym locker rooms tend to be busiest weekday evenings between 5pm and 8pm. Each spot listing has notes on the best windows.
Splashd is an 18+ adult platform. The cruising spot directory is provided for informational purposes only. Any activity at a listed location is the responsibility of the individuals involved. Local laws vary by jurisdiction. Always check applicable rules and respect private property, posted hours, and other people sharing the space.
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