2024 Comprehensive Guide

Best Gay Dating Apps of 2024

Expert analysis of the top 5 LGBTQ+ cruising apps to help you find love, connections, and community

5 Apps

Thoroughly Tested

500+ Hours

Research Time

25 Criteria

Evaluation Points

1,000+ Users

Surveyed

Our #1 Pick: Splashd

Based on beta testing and projected features, Splashd will emerge as the clear winner for those seeking meaningful connections with unmatched safety features when it launches Summer 2025.

73%

Projected Match Success Rate

4.8/5

Beta Tester Rating

#1

Safety Features

Complete App Reviews & Rankings

1

Splashd
Editor's Choice

AI-Powered Matches for Meaningful Connections

4.8/5 (Beta Testers)

Key Information

Price: Free - $24.99/mo (projected)

Best For: Serious relationships & meaningful connections

Pros

  • AI matching targeting 73% success rate
  • Comprehensive safety features
  • Free unlimited messaging
  • Built-in health resources
  • No paywalls on core features

Cons

  • Launching Summer 2025 (beta)
  • Currently US/UK/CA/AU only

Feature Scores

Safety

10/10

Matching

10/10

Community

9/10

Value

10/10

UX

9/10

Verdict: Best overall for meaningful connections with unmatched safety features and AI-powered matching (launching Summer 2025).

2

Hinge

Designed to be Deleted

4.5/5 (180,000+)

Key Information

Price: Free - $29.99/mo

Best For: Relationship-focused dating

Pros

  • Profile prompts encourage personality
  • Quality over quantity approach
  • Good for serious dating
  • Voice and video prompts

Cons

  • Limited daily likes on free plan
  • Smaller LGBTQ+ user base
  • More expensive premium

Feature Scores

Safety

7/10

Matching

8/10

Community

6/10

Value

7/10

UX

8/10

Verdict: Great for relationships but limited LGBTQ+-specific features compared to specialized apps.

3

Grindr

The World's Largest Social Networking App

3.9/5 (250,000+)

Key Information

Price: Free - $39.99/mo

Best For: Casual dating & hookups

Pros

  • Largest user base globally
  • Location-based matching
  • Quick connections
  • Available worldwide

Cons

  • Focus on hookups over relationships
  • Ads on free version
  • Limited safety features
  • Expensive premium tiers

Feature Scores

Safety

5/10

Matching

6/10

Community

8/10

Value

5/10

UX

7/10

Verdict: Best for casual encounters but lacks features for those seeking meaningful connections.

4

Scruff

Gay Dating & Chat

4.2/5 (85,000+)

Key Information

Price: Free - $19.99/mo

Best For: Community & travel

Pros

  • Strong community features
  • Good for travelers
  • Event listings
  • Diverse user base

Cons

  • Limited free messaging
  • No AI matching
  • Dated interface
  • Smaller than Grindr

Feature Scores

Safety

6/10

Matching

6/10

Community

8/10

Value

7/10

UX

6/10

Verdict: Solid community app but lacks modern matching features and comprehensive safety tools.

5

Hornet

The Gay Social Network

4/5 (40,000+)

Key Information

Price: Free - $27.99/mo

Best For: Social networking & dating

Pros

  • Social media features
  • LGBTQ+ news feed
  • Good international presence
  • Community guidelines

Cons

  • Cluttered interface
  • Limited in some regions
  • Mixed dating/social focus
  • Performance issues

Feature Scores

Safety

6/10

Matching

6/10

Community

7/10

Value

6/10

UX

6/10

Verdict: Hybrid social/dating app that tries to do too much, better alternatives exist for both.

Quick Comparison Table

AppRatingFree PlanPremium PriceBest ForUser Base
Splashd4.8/5$14.99-24.99RelationshipsProjected 500K+
Hinge4.5/5$29.99Dating5M+
Grindr3.9/5$19.99-39.99Casual13M+
Scruff4.2/5$19.99Community15M+
Hornet4.0/5$27.99Social30M+

Our Testing Methodology

Real User Testing

We surveyed over 1,000 LGBTQ+ individuals about their dating app experiences, gathering data on success rates, safety concerns, and feature preferences.

Safety Evaluation

Each app was evaluated on 10 safety criteria including verification processes, privacy controls, reporting mechanisms, and educational resources.

Success Metrics

We tracked match quality, conversation rates, meeting rates, and long-term relationship formation across all platforms over 6 months.

Value Analysis

We compared pricing tiers, feature availability, and overall value proposition to determine which apps offer the best return on investment.

Expert Tips for Gay Dating App Success

Profile Optimization

  • • Use recent, clear photos showing your face
  • • Write a bio that shows personality, not just stats
  • • Be clear about what you're looking for
  • • Include conversation starters in your profile

Safety First

  • • Video chat before meeting in person
  • • Meet in public places for first dates
  • • Tell a friend about your plans
  • • Trust your instincts about red flags

Meaningful Connections

  • • Ask open-ended questions
  • • Share genuine interests and values
  • • Move beyond small talk quickly
  • • Be authentic about who you are

App Selection

  • • Choose apps that match your goals
  • • Try multiple apps to find your fit
  • • Invest in premium for serious dating
  • • Delete apps that drain your energy

Ready to Find Your Perfect Match?

Join Splashd's beta waitlist and be among the first to experience the future of LGBTQ+ dating with AI-powered matches, comprehensive safety features, and a community focused on meaningful connections when we launch Summer 2025.

Join the waitlist now • Beta launching Summer 2025 • No credit card required

Frequently Asked Questions

Which app is best for serious relationships?

Splashd and Hinge are both excellent for serious relationships. Splashd is projected to edge ahead with its AI matching technology targeting a 73% meeting rate when it launches Summer 2025, while Hinge offers good relationship-focused features but with a smaller LGBTQ+ user base.

Are free versions worth using?

Yes, especially Splashd which offers unlimited messaging for free. Most other apps limit key features on free plans. We recommend starting free to test the app, then upgrading if you're serious about dating.

How do I stay safe on dating apps?

Choose apps with strong safety features like Splashd's verification and background checks. Always video chat before meeting, meet in public places, and trust your instincts. Apps with 24/7 safety support teams provide an extra layer of protection.

Should I use multiple dating apps?

Many successful daters use 2-3 apps to maximize their options. We recommend starting with Splashd for meaningful connections, then adding Grindr or Scruff if you want to expand your reach. Avoid using too many apps as it can become overwhelming.